40 Things for 40: Lux Staycation with Ralph

Turning 40 has me moving a little differently. I’m not just chasing big moments—I’m creating intentional ones. And one of my favorite experiences so far in my 40 Things for 40 journey was the ultimate luxe staycation right here in Cincinnati with Raph.
Let me just say… this was exactly what I needed.


We checked into The Lytle Park Hotel, and from the moment we walked in, it was a whole vibe. If you’ve never been, it’s giving timeless elegance, soft luxury, and just the right amount of “I deserve to be here.” Sometimes you don’t need a flight—you just need the right environment to reset. Before even heading up to the room, I made my way to their beautiful lobby bar. You already know I love a good ambiance, and this did not disappoint. It was the perfect place to ease into the evening. I grabbed a bite, sipped on a drink, and just sat in the moment. No rushing, no distractions—just enjoying the energy and letting the day slow down. But I didn’t stop there, because what’s a staycation without a little self-care?


Right across the street is Mitchell’s Salon & Day Spa, and when I tell you that massage was everything… I mean it. Life has been lifing, and I didn’t even realize how much tension I was carrying until I got on that table. That hour of stillness, release, and care? It reset me in the best way. It’s something I don’t do often enough, but after that experience, I’m adding it into my regular rotation.


Floating back to the hotel (yes, floating because that’s exactly how I felt), it was time to fully lean into the staycation experience--room service.
Now let’s talk about the food. Subito is known for its elevated Italian cuisine, and ordering it straight to the room just made the experience that much better. There’s something about putting on a robe, getting cozy, and having restaurant-quality food delivered to your door that just feels luxurious. Everything was flavorful, fresh, and exactly what I needed to end the night on a high note. Honestly, that’s what made this whole experience so special.


It wasn’t overplanned. It wasn’t overwhelming. It was intentional. It was laughter with Raph. It was slowing down. It was taking care of my body. It was enjoying a beautiful space without feeling like I had to be “on.” It was a reminder that luxury isn’t always about going far it’s about how you choose to experience the moment you’re in.


As I continue this 40 Things for 40 journey, I’m realizing that these are the moments I want more of. The ones where I pour into myself, rest without guilt, and create memories that feel good not just look good. So if you’ve been telling yourself you need a break, a reset, or just a night to feel like that girl again, let this be your sign.


Book the staycation.


Check into The Lytle Park Hotel, treat yourself to a massage at Mitchell’s Salon & Day Spa, grab a drink at the bar, order room service from Subito, and just enjoy. Because you don’t have to leave the city to feel refreshed, restored, and a little bit luxurious.
Trust me, you deserve it.